You need to begin applying the LRT immediately. Your W is obviously going through some confusion. She needs to realize what she stands to lose if she continues on her current path. Bottom line, stop pursuing her.
Hi Denver thanks for the advice, I ordered the` Divorce Remedy Book & Divorce Busting one from Amazon last night, so I won't get them until Monday or Tuesday at the earliest. I'll let you know how my day's gone & you can let me know if I've done ok. So today it's 1 in the afternoon where I am as I write this. I've been up, keeping busy, cleaned the kitchen and spent time with the kids this morning whilst W had a lie in. Then I got showered had a shave and put on some decent clothes & aftershave & have took myself off to the library for the afternoon - GAL (sort of- it needs to be done). Tomorrow is Mother's day & my W invited me today to go out for the day with the kids tomorrow to a space attraction. I've said yes & I'm more than happy to spend time as a family which is so good for the kids right now. That's OK isn't it because I never initiated it right? I'm gonna look for some LRT threads so I don't screw this up before I get the DR book.
Denver, you speak a lot of sense and don't beat around the bush. Thanks for brightening up my day.
Oh by the way - the dancing - at first it was just to please my wife, but now I love it!! and I'm actually getting pretty good. I'm gonna make sure I add on to the list of GAL - though.
speak to you soon
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13
