He is very good at keeping his feelings inside, thus we find ourselves in our current sitch.

When he chooses his hill to die on, there's no little room for retreat.

And I really would like him to be happy.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss