As I said to S22: "I have to believe he's happy with his choice and this is the life he wants to live."
Labug - A reality check for your H, indeed...
And what a contrast - His sitch sounds so sad to me, while I can hear the sense of peace and contentment in your words. So glad you have all your chicks home. :-)
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D