if some of your anger is due to the affair.. maybe reading up on affairs would help. sometimes it's easier to forgive (or get past) when you have a better understanding on the whys.. just a thought. i read "after the affair". gave me new perspective.
Great point, BF, thank you.
Another book re. affairs is "Not Just Friends"
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
