Bill - Your W's A is not over. Grocery gave you some good advice. Do not move out of your home. She is the one having the A. If she is unhappy, then she should move out. I'd suggest telling her exactly what Grocery suggested.
Secondly, you need to read Divorce Remedy. Specifically, the chapters on infidelity and the Last Resort Technique (LRT).
You need to begin applying the LRT immediately. Your W is obviously going through some confusion. She needs to realize what she stands to lose if she continues on her current path. Bottom line, stop pursuing her. She will begin to wonder what is going on, and she will ask. Your response should be that you will not be a part of a R with her as long as OM is in her life. Leave it at that.
GAL - start doing some stuff for yourself. The dancing is great, but it sounds like that is something that you did for your W... not for you. What is something that you would like to do for yourself?
Tough situation man. I've been there. There is no way to around the pain... you have to go through it.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
