Brklyn Babe...nothing new to say...just saying hi and that I'm here...I think your handling youself well and like the rest of us have to keep peeling the layers of our own onions to see the real reasons for what and why we react the ways we do.
I just love these boards. It saves me during the day when I start feeling lonely cause I cant call my H to share the events of the day, that I have you guys:)
I so relate to this!! Thinking of you Bklyn! ((( )))
bk - i agree w/ a formal custody arrangement. it creates some stability for the kids. i'm also assuming that you would be flexible if needed (ie. bday parties etc.).
i read your comments about the future and it made me smile. i have totally thought about those same things. what future partner is going to want the ex around whenever he pleases? it's these things that i have thought about and was trying to fix things to spare everyone those heartaches.
i'm glad you have your dad to be the bad guy. at least you know he's got your best interest (as well as your girls) at heart.
((((( )))))
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11
Hope you get to enjoy this nice change of weather this weekend!!!
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
I have been working a lot lately and I am basically a single mom, so I havent had much time to post. But I am always checking and reading the boards and the alt. It is such a blessing having you guys as friends.
Our kitty cat escaped the other night, guess I didnt shut the door all the way. We are in a two family house so our front door opens onto the sidewalk. I posted some signs and have been looking for him whenever we are out but no luck. I am thinking he got into the backyard area on the block. Our apt doesnt have access to the back so I havent been able to look. I hope to have more time to search the 'hood this weekend. Clarence was such a sweet little kitty with a defective paw.
Ironicly we named our two cats Clarence and Alabama after the characters in True Romance. And the male cat runs away...
Appt with the C tomorrow morning, how fun?!!?? yucky yuck
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
BB - good to see you back. So sorry about your cat :-(
Good luck with the C tomorrow. Is this MC or IC? BTW, it sounds like you are dreading it. May I ask why?
When I was going, at first I would be nervous, but learned to really cherish the sessions. I always felt better afterward - even if I sometimes felt like I was just there crying and venting for an hour. Anyways, now that I am not going, I realize how I miss going.
Keep us posted and enjoy the weekend!
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
