Bond:"Then pack up her things and ask her kindly to leave."
Problem is, the response I expect would be "no." If that is the line I draw, then the action I will take would have to be legal movement towards a divorce. Bad thing to try to call a bluff with a bluff. I want to bust this divorce, not initiate it. "then Y" needs to be MY action, not "you should move out." I'm so lost on this. "If you choose to communicate w/OM, then I think you should move out." I was ready to go with that until a friend opened my eyes about not really having much leverage.
So, I think this weekend will be "I'm not moving out, and I don't plan on moving later." But I guess I'm not ready to set down the boundary. What if I stole her SIM card and got rid of the internet at home? Too petty?
