W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P2

[Snowman]

Well I'm back again. I got back from my vacation in Hawaii which I will admit was awesome and sorely needed. I talked to my S and W pretty much everyday. Things seem to be progressing in some shape or form although I'm not sure where but I'm keeping my cool. My D papers were nearly revised and ready for final signature so this is all just a little crazy to say the least but no big deal.

I got my wife some things in Hawaii because I know she wanted something bad and I even asked her what she wanted. I gave it to her when I got home and she was very appreciative. Our conversations with each other have been very amicable but none have really been about our R. She had texted me pics of our S on my trip as well as pics of her amazing cupcakes she makes. I said when do I get mine and she said when I get back. She tells me when I get back that she had given them all to her coworkers but she will make a new batch a different kind. I said great.

She signed my S up for soccer while I was gone which she told me about and I thought was great but when I get home she informs me that she volunteered to coach as well because no one else did. I thought was strange as well but then she proceeds to tell me she will need my help and that she will be gone for 2-4 of the games. My blood started to boil as I didn't feel it appropriate that she commit us to coach and commit me to coach when she knew she would be gone and not even tell me on top of the fact of the mess we are in. I tried to express my concern while still staying positive but she was at work so the conversation was short. I emailed my true concerns that I was a little blindsided by this and confused as she had stated we were taking things slow. She emailed me back saying she was doing this for our S because she wanted to and was not planning on having me do it with her and that she only needed me to cover 2 games (the 2 games that she will be in London on her trip). She also said she wanted to do this because her family didn't do it for her when she was young. I said I can understand that and that remember my parents be there for things like this and that I would support here in this. I want our S to play for sure but I was just surprised about this whole thing. I think we are good on this for now.

I asked her if she want to come over to hang out before her trip and she said she would try but she would be very busy planning her trip and packing which was understandable. She called the night she might come over to let me know she probably would not make and and I said thats ok that I understand but to text me when she was done with her trip planning anyway to see. She texted me late saying she was not going to make it so I jokingly said that thats ok she can now gets to make me dinner and cupcakes. She said oh really and I said just kidding but it would be nice. She told me she could maybe do that one day. I asked her if maybe means that she doesn't really want to do it or I'm just reading more into it (this was texts by the way). She told me I was reading too much into it. I said ok cool, just want to clarify because texting it is hard to tell.

Anyway this is where my stitch is at in the scheme of things. I guess this is somewhat piecing with little to no direction but I'm letting her take the lead as much as possible.

Any advice fellow DBer's at this point? I have kind of been off the radar for a while.