It just [censored] that I want to be supportive and she seems.against it. During.our convo today I just asked about how she was doing and she says its been.tough but our S and her family keep her well. Some talk about the viewing came up and it seemed to bother her that I expressed interest in paying my respects in person. It led to a small argument over the phone which confused me because she was all like, "If it makes your conscience feel better to show up then.do so." A lot more was said that I just met with stern replies about her notbyelling at me over the phone with my S present, to her getting too upset to continie the convo since I was calm and she was a raving madwoman. Thats what I get for being supportive? Damn...