Jenna - as hard as it is for both of you, you both are to be commended for the work you are doing. I really have faith in you. Does J have somewhere we he can bounce around ideas like we do here? It's to bad HE couldn't talk to us like you do. He would really benefit from some of us guys who were in his shoes not so long ago.

If he has no one like that I'd be happy to talk with him. W and I were in your shoes in the 90's.