I'm glad she was civil about the whole thing. It's sad when we are surprised by our WAS acting "civil" or "nice"...
Originally Posted By: JustStunned
I spoke to my son last weekend; his little girl is only waking once during the night now. She will be two month old in a few days. I told him he was lucky and to appreciate his blessings. He told me W and her Aunt will visit for the first time in a few days. This caused a few moments of envy for me, but I managed to wish him a good visit with his mother. He laughed and told me he and his wife planned upon taking full advantage of the baby sitting service offered.
Well done JS. Your son's a lucky man to have a dad like you.
Originally Posted By: JustStunned
Barring further complication the D will be final on April 3rd. I am at a good place emotionally for the most part. Not healed, but better. Last night mom told me to get out there and start dating, to go find another woman. I told her it will be awhile yet before I will be able to trust like that again.
You sound like you are in a good place JS. I dread signing my papers but at the same time.. I feel like it will be a huge weight lifted off my shoulders.
When it's time for you to date again, your heart will know. Until then.. enjoy the life you have built for yourself.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
