not enought time and too much distance

[JustStunned]

AC, I have to go with what Bond, Kaffe and Val posted. All good advice. Allow me to echo some of that also.

I heard the same platitudes the same commitments and I heard the same BS. I have the same BS in parting letters. It is all anger, delusion and script. It has caused each of us to examine ourselves and our lives. We have all honestly put in work to correct that which we found true. The thing we found lacking. We will never truly be done for life goes on and we grow continually.

That said do not give her more power. She left; she ran away, she abandoned her commitment. From my background from my upbringing, from my training that makes her less and not worthy.