Multiple emails and texts today, just small talk or "can I call I have a funny joke" or "you looked cute sleeping this morning"
It makes me sad really. A few weeks ago I would have loved to hear both of those things. It is just sad.
Don't worry I didn't respond. The one time I said "sorry in a meeting right now" and the rest I deleted.
The same person who wanted to go out all the time, and party with his "friends" now wants to stay home and garden this weekend. He hasn't done anything around here in a long time. I was really hoping for the alone time. I suppose I will need to make some plans to be out now.
Staying off his roller coaster but man is this house small
Autumn,
Plan on these moods and tactics of his swinging wildly over the weekend, as he sees one method not "working" (not getting you to respond, and indicate that "everything is just okay with Autumn"). He may start out nice and sweet, then shift to "OK, so you're not responding now?" followed by "How childish." then back to a funny joke. Then angry. Then threaten a "see, this is why we never will work," yadda yadda yadda "we might as well get a divorce then!" etc.
I fully expect him to try to initiate sex with you.
His methods will change. Just be ready. He knows your "Autumn buttons" better than perhaps anyone else on the planet. Expect him to push them all.
