Something that's on my mind at the moment that I can't throw off.
ncl - you out there? Cause I know you've been through this issue yourself.
How does a WAS get past the shame of what they've done in having an A?
That is, how do they overcome the impetus just to keep going on the path they've chosen in ending their M because it's just too hard/embarrassing/hopeless after what they've done to turn around and try again.
Is the answer just "who knows? Some of them get there and some of them don't?"
Does anyone have any experience with a WAW who came back and explained how they took this huge step?
I get the feeling, constantly, from my H that he believes that there's no coming back from what he's done - cause it's so monstrous and he's such a bad person.
