Harrier, I appreciate your expertise, especially as a L.
Unfortunately, I really don't feel I have any acceptable choices.
Yes, it has sunk in that this program comes with legal risks. But those legal risks would apply to anyone who goes into the program - would you recommend that no one participate in this type of program? There are some people for whom it could be beneficial - perhaps me.
Without my going, my kids stand to lose me anyway - that is, in my not living with them anymore. Going, there is a chance to save my family.
At any rate, I have already had the initial admission assessment...any damage that stands to be done is probably already done. I am registered in the program. In a way, I've already taken my chances, and am just waiting to see the outcome.
If there is any advice you can give me now, to protect myself without sacrificing whatever benefit I might get from this program, I would welcome it.
Thnaks for your concern and your input.
Think about it...if you met a potential mate who was nothing but a bundle of needs, would YOU be attracted to them?
