My d wanted to dance with me so I had to end the talk. To be continued.
Kids will do this to interfere when they don't like what's going on. The kids might be happy, but they're walking on egg shells most likely, waiting for another shoe to drop...
HT, my W's grandfather just went through chemo for a lung tumour and my MIL just went for surgery to remove lumps from her breasts yesterday.
I'm saying this because it seemed to me, after our SA signing end of Jan, that my W has started to "warm" to me to some degree. Maybe it had something to do with her family stress, maybe some of it had to do with the reduction in the M stress...
But... last weekend, she went cold and distant, again... again, maybe it was something I did or said, maybe it was because her mom was being prepped for surgery... who knows...
All I'm saying is, I get how frustrating it can be. I'm not making two steps forward, one back... for me, it's just a long term balance of "same old, same old".
Is that what might be happening in your sitch? If so... what can you do different...?
