Dropping the rope means to stop pursuing your W. She sees pursuit as a leash (rope) that's not letting her be free.
I would suggest this and again this is just my opinion. Tell her that you love and respect her, however you will not continually be disrespected by her talking to another man while you're still married to her. Tell her that she will not be taking the children and that you have made plans for you and them to be happy.
Then pack up her things and ask her kindly to leave.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
