Husband left me...feel hopeless

[jks]

I know, you would think that huh... but there's still that wall that has to be broken down. I haven't read your whole sitch yet but I know that my H has said that he misses me but he doesn't really ever do anything about it. Weird, isn't it? The only thing I can try to makes sense out of it is they're too afraid all of those feelings they hated are going to come back if they're around us and they don't know how to get rid of them or stop the unhealthy dynamic of the R. So therefore, they stay away. I am no expert but I try all the time to put myself in my H's position and try to see it from his point of view. And I can see how that would be a hard thing to overcome.