I do see this as a possibility. However, he did confide in a girl from work shortly after we separated. I saw emails they sent back and forth. He was just saying that he felt so sad about life and not happy with his marriage and she was complaining about her married life (she just got married in October). If he wanted to be completely alone, then why would he confide his feelings to her??
I know his mom has tried to talk to him, but he won't talk to her about what is going either. He said he just wants to sort things out for himself and that there has to be more to life than going to work, coming home and going on random vacations. He's looking for this "magic" happiness pill. He always wants life to be on a high...and our love, too!! I tried explaining to him that relationships go through ups and downs and in love and out of love, but he says he wants that feeling all the time.
For me...I am taking a new workout class and am hanging out and talking to my friends more. I am also keeping up with the house and our dog, which he has completely decided to stop taking care of. That's another part I don't understand...why he doesn't want to see or let out his own dog?!?!?
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
