Friday I had a busy week working. Since the weather is warming up took the kids on a 20 km bike ride On Sunday and Wednesday. My S had hockey multiple times this week. I had no disturbances with my w. My w even seem to open up to me on multiple occasions.
Last night my s was crying and upset when he went to sleep. About his life is not being good right now. I listened to what he had to say. My s feels bullied or picked on at school. His older cousin is picking on him. His parents( my w and me) are separating. I comforted him and told him that I love him and that will not change. I told him that his mom still loves him. My s told me that mom is so stupid. Can't she see. I got upset and told him he should not talk like that about his mom. My w was sleeping already. I convinced him to go to sleep. but it took about an hour for him to calm down.
Today at lunch I called my w. I told her about the conversation about my s. My w said that she wanted to talk to me about it later and thanked me for calling her. An intresting thing my w said that she does not know where this is coming from.
She texted me just right now.
"BIL came by to see the kitchen and order doors..I have to go to the shop to choose the type of the door."
My BIL is a Carpenter and my w is expecting him to update our kitchen to sell our house. I did not respond to my w text. I am comforted a bit by the fact my w can not sell the house with out me signing as well. My name is on the deed. Anyways my w could have told me on the telephone. Whatever.
So after work I am going to have a talk.
H 37 W 38 M 11 T 18 D 4 S 10 Bomb 27/11/2010 Separated still living in the same house 1/1/2012 No D Papers No Separation Papers