I agree with adinva, sounds to me that you may not be quite ready to call it quits after all. I think the emotions are so raw between the two of you right now that it may be hard to make any sound decisions at the moment. Your patience will be your saving grace... (I need to take my own advice, believe me.)
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
