In the post I wrote, I had originally written "Were you abandoned as a child?" as the last sentence but deleted it. Coda I don't remember if I mentioned this before but Alanon and CoDa are great places to get the best free therapy anywhere.
labug - wow... your insight is amazing and I respect it and appreciate it. In the past I have attended Gamanon - for relatives of gamblers (my mom). It helped tremendously. It was actually there that I began to understand all my issues with my mother. I stopped going when my son was born. But last night I looked into CoDa and there is a meeting near my house next Wednesday night. I am definitely going.
I think both my H and I have many co-dependent issues and I am ready to tackle mine! Thanks again. :-)
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
