It's just so confusing. It almost seems like she might want to give R another shot, but she hasn't said that. On the other hand, she hasn't said she still wants a divorce. She seems to talk like it's going to happen and I should know it already, but I accept that there's a lot of fear motivating that thought.
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I know what you mean about it being so confusing. My H and I are still separated at the time and have not really spoken since he left (LRT). We are seeing a DB coach every two weeks, so that's the only time I get to actually communicate with him. What I don't understand is that while out with friends the other night, my H told them he thinks MC is working (we've only been once) and did not mention divorce to his friends...it's just sooo confusing at times!!! What is going through their heads?!?!
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July