Husband left me...feel hopeless

[hopingandpraying]

So I have not talked or texted my H in two weeks (the coach suggested this for three weeks.) It's been hard, but I have done it. However, he has not even tried to contact me via email, text, or call. I don't understand how this is all supposed to work if we're not talking at all. We do have DB coaching tomorrow morning and it will be the first time we've talked or seen each other in two weeks. I am apprehensive about tomorrow, because I'm not sure how to act or talk to him. I want to pretend things are normal and fine, but I don't know if I know how to do that. I want to know everything that has gone on in his past two weeks and how work is, but I don't want to bombard him.

Another update: He did go out with friends this past week and he mentioned to one of our mutual friends that "he misses his stuff." Our friend, then asked "your stuff and W?" And he just looked at our friend, smiled, and said "I miss all my stuff." The friend (who is a guy) says from his point of view that he really does miss me and everything about our life, but he still is not sure what is going to make him happy in life. He also got the vibe from my H that our marriage is not over and that he thinks counseling is working or will work. I don't see how he can say this to someone when we haven't really spoken in a month and haven't seen each other in two weeks!

I'm just so confused about this whole process! I don't know how it's supposed to work in the end. I really want my marriage to work and I'm willing to work hard, but I want to see some results and I'm not seeing anything...