What is all telling is that my ex also refers to her as "the bimbo". He called her this many times in the conversation. He really has no respect for her and she is just a means to an end. He can't be alone to face his fears and himself so he has to take along a body.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11