HollyAnn makes an excellent point... What's helpful in her words is either (her) definition of an alcoholic and/or an organizations (AA? Al-Anon?) definition of an alcoholic... Including how the drinkers actions affect everyone else, not just themselves...!
I know Starsky recommended Al-Anon. I liked the idea from the beginning, for help w/understanding your affect/role in this possibility. I love it now after reading HollyAnn's (personal experience) post.
Just remember... No matter his words and actions right now. They are a symptom of the problem... Actually a reaction, too. The man is cheating sober, too.
So. For you and your family's sake, consider Al-Anon. But, do it in tandem w/the rest of your plan. His potential alcoholism isn't the problem, it's just the first one to deal w/in a possible reconciliation OR future in co-parenting.
How did it go last night?
Loved the strength and resolve in your tone after dinner-time!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
