That friendly thing can really suck you in. It happens to me every time I see H. Especially since everything is so amicable. It's like oh, this is us, how we were, when I thought everything was fine. NOT! Jeez, it must be hard since you have little kids to have so much contact. My contact now is pretty much just about D. Emails or phone or texts, unless he has to come to house and he wants to "visit". Those are killer. He is so pragmatic. An aside, I needed to talk about car title other day, he said guess where I am? Snoqualmie Falls, since so much rain he took a drive. I said "oh honeymoon" That's were we spent honeymoon , at Salish, he totally didn't make the connection. Nice. I could tell he felt bad but really? I hope in my responses to you that I don't go off on my own stuff. I try to find you every day and just look at your sit. sorry if I do that. fondly
