KML, I believe when a man breaks his vows, then he cannot expect everything else to go on as normal. I think, like my D31, Wendy has had to be very independent with no H at her side while he is away with the military. She has more than kept up her end of the bargain (their vows). So, long stretches of time with loneliness, doing stuff on her own, being the mom and dad to the children. Then, her H has the gall to cheat! Wendy, don't worry about anything ... give yourself some slack. Let him see what it's like when you don't do anything, IMO. Have a break, a mini holiday for a couple of days. I like that you spent some time on the boat, and that it seemed to relax you. You only have one life ... live it.
I think Wendy and I are in the same position, except I'm somewhat further down the line. I am happy, and keen to live my life without my H. I doubt I would be interested in him, the way he is now.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
