would this be pursuing if I make myself available to him if he wants to talk? is there anything i can do or say to help him with this (feeling empty, wanting peace)? or does this fall into the category of stuff he needs to figure out on his own? any thoughts?
YES - pursuing, NOPE - FIXING YES - CONTROLLING
He is divorcing YOU - LET HIM GO. Give him what he wants.
DIVORCE = SPACE, he is going to get it whether you cooperate or not. Just worry about YOU!
