I actually stopped using FB back in September. My last post was a Happy Birthday message to my H... But guess who else was wishing him HB? I decided that's it. No more FB for me - it's too painful to see my H and OW send each other messages and have their R paraded in cyberspace.
And that day I felt like you. I have been tempted to call her, her STBXH, my MIL, etc. But like you, I step away and think of all the people here that have adviced otherwise, and of all the cases that I have read here when that just came back to haunt the LBS. So I have not done any of it and I am proud about it.
I figure things fall on their own accord, and I am already having a very difficult time getting OW out of my thoughts to add any more fuel to the fire.
So good for you! I admire your strength and ability to let go. I definitely need to follow suit.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
