Thanks CV, I needed that! Mncwing, it's important to understand that I no longer have a WAW, so my rules are slightly different from yours. My W is making an effort. The issue is that I'm hurt by what's happened and now want a more intimate marriage than my W does,
Tonight I called to talk to the kids after dinner. I was in a car with a friend of mine. W got on the phone after I talked to the kids and seemed perturbed. She asked me how my friend was doing since she knows his marriage is in trouble too. I couldn't talk about that because he was sitting right there. She made a snippy comment about the fact that I couldn't talk and that was that.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015