11th Hour of Divorce & Trial: What Else Can I Do?

[Yasu]

The new medications, (that would put a hours down), have had a great effect. I am so happy I tried the Adderall. I was really afraid of it, as I had it years ago for axils ADHD, and it made me a jittery mess.

But, Dr. Psychiatrist urged me to at least try one pill, and I did, with my assistant here. It was like a miricle. No jitters or nerviousness at all. I've kept my mind on our task at hand, and we got it done before the deadline - normally, I have been known to procrastinate and catastophie one of those financial document productions for weeks, maybe months.

This time, one and a half days, period. I had help, but I knew what to have my helper do. With the extra 150 welbutrin, I'm not as depressed, but that could just be cause I was totally busy ALL day. I am so glad I listened to the doctor. That Adderall is exactly what I needed to balance out all this other stuff. As well, the dosage was surely reduced, as I weigh 50 pounds less than when I had a problem with this Adderal, and sort of turned against it.

And all other ADHD medications are putting me to sleep all day. Well, I hope this feeling continues. Tomorrow, I'm taking a trip to the rental house to camp for awhile, re-vamp all the electrical sockets and wall switches with new guts, and meet my new renters.

Thank for your advice 25, and please excuse any rudeness or abruptness in my previous post. I come here with extreme baggage. People that come to the site are all shapes, colors, sizes, and conditions. One-size-does-not-fit-all.

That is why I'm often perplexed that rather than listening and guiding - gently, (folks that could be emotionally on edge), that often I see some abrupt statements such as: "what are you coming to this forum to achieve?". "why would you want to be with that person if he did those things (anything from abandonment to cheating).?

You have said you are a lawyer several times. What kind of law do you practice? I would like to know that. I may have an illness, but I do have extensive credentials and accomplishments myself; but that does not mean I absorb the MWD material any faster than anyone else. There are an unlimited number of variables that effect how one can absorb and apply DB. This is only complicated by the fact that DB is flexible. Further, the gentle advisor might bear in mind that words and phrases such as love, unconditional love, detachment, withdrawal, giving-up, hope, denial, etc, have a multitude of definitions ingrained within us more deeply than MWD.

We must have words to define our theories. Theories that are for practice in the real world must be recognizable. For the purposes of this theory in practice, we use these terms and define them as such. Fine.

I feel we should not be so expectant for newbies, like Broken and myself, to be required to articulate in DeeBee-ese, exactly what we are at the site for. The way you state it, 25, it's like you're gonna drop us if we don't have the right answer.

I wrote about my initial perceptions of this site early on one of Broken's early threads. I was not totally alone in my perception. But I did get the lyrics wrong on the Beatles song.

No offense 25. Just another Gal's perception. Yas