We did talk and it went better than I could have believed 48 hours ago. We communicated better about difficult issues than I remember doing in a long time.
It seems like there is some hope for the idea that she might be willing to talk to someone with me about ways to make our current arrangement work with kids in their own beds for the time being and not rushing on to get two separate houses.
I told her no pressure and I'm not asking her now, but I will probably ask her in two weeks unless she decides she wants to go sooner.
She also said that I don't have to not send her email, but I told her I'm going to keep that up for a while.
- All for the kids - Me:34, W:35 M:7, T:13 S6, D3 + my D15 from previous marriage July 2011 "I think I need a separation" W filed D September Currently living apart - she has the house, I rent a room