Informally separated from WAW, but DBing my best

[AlwaysTrying]

I'm dropping D15's meds at the house this evening after the little ones are in bed. D15 will be asleep, too.

I'm thinking about asking W if she can talk for a few minutes. I want to tell her I understand how important separating the finances is to her now. I'm going to tell her that I'm going to put together a plan and try to take on the debt we have.

Maybe I'll leave it at that. I want to touch on the pain from the invasion of privacy and how it isn't going away and how I'm going to search hard to see what I can do about it.