Just wanted to tack onto what Accuray wrote re pursuing. After almost a year I finally quit pursuing. :0

Yes, even tho we only every talked about kids, money, house I pursued him with it. Many times his input wasn't crucial, I just wanted to reach out ant touch, another hit of my drug.

Then in Nov I. finally. got. it. If he was interested in any of it , he knew where to find me.

We did have some contact after the first of the year about taxes and S19 medical issues but that's it.

I haven't seen any movement but it hasn't been that long and as 'ray says, it may take 8x longer that we like or he may not at all.

That's why to do this is so scary and such a leap of faith.

Hope you can enjoy your trip despite your issues with H.

Oh and DON'T SNOOP!


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss