No one has said Autumn's H is an alcoholic. He's definitely using it as a crutch right now, and maybe she does think so... but I don't see those words, or any other conversation that might make you think so... (unless I forgot something from the other thread)
And...
She's doing well staying off of his roller-coaster. The pitch black, ZERO contact, blahblahblah is superb advice. But, remember, this information about the EA's/Possible PA's just came to light. She's still trying to wrap her arms around what she's dealing with. He still lives in their home, parents their sons, etc...
I think the guy is a royal douche, but... one step at a time.
She's NOT engaging him. She's NOT being trapped into conversations. She's doing well, not perfect, but pretty well!
I think she understands her next steps. I've talked to her quite a bit off forum, so I probably understand a bit better. But, she's doing great.
Let's not get ahead of ourselves, and help her as she needs it when she needs it.
Oh, and Autumn... these people are some of the very best from the group that helped me... so much.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
