25 - Please see my editorial note - my S said "Love you" not W. Typing error on my part. Or perhaps Freudian wishful thinking?
Sandi - Was going to mention and forgot. The mutual female friend that we share that w isn't happy with is a married lesbian. My w has nothing at all to fear there.
Busto - I am trying to prepare myself mentally if that is what is going to have to occur. Won't like it, but would probably do it.