Going to therapy is my main thing right now. I've been doing some CBT work & the exercises/homework my T gives me takes up a good amount of my time. Some of my homework includes reading self help books she's recommended.
I've changed my hair colour.
I've been looking into going back to school & figuring out what upgrading I'd need to make this a possibility.
I've replaced my wardrobe.
I've been going out with/keeping in touch with friends more than I have in the past.
Although I haven't been able to yet, I do plan on getting back to the gym daily (as I once was) as soon as my AD's kick in & my energy and motivation return.
M:36 WAH:41 M:16 T:17 D:12 SS:21 Bomb: IDLY 10/29/11 Separated same day, about an hour after the bomb.