Thank you JustStunned. I contacted our provider and was sent a list of referrals. I spoke with one therapist that is a solutions based MC, but she recommended someone for now that has experience with trauma/anxiety counseling that may help me to better understand the position my W is in. Recommended a few to me to contact and also said once I get a better grasp on that to call back and set up a few sessions with her. Seemed to make sense so I'm opting to head down that path for now.
In other news, I finally had a conversation with the W about her lack of interest in our S as he's needs must be first. Lately she hasn't been fulfilling her end of the bargain with our sitch. She had just gone 2 days with absolutely no contact with him and he was starting to get upset. A phone call around bedtime always is good for him or a quick call in the morning before work sets his mind at ease. Last night I laid out the ground work and told her that was the minimum requirements to ensure that he has the least amount of impact from the situation. It really upsets me that she has been able to disconnect herself from her maternal instincts/responsibilities.
