Thanks Starsky! I agree, and he has work to do in that respect. I fully intend to protect these cubs. I expect them to be good men who treat their wives with the respect that I now know I deserve. I can teach them that by showing them what is acceptable even if he is currently not. For their sakes, I hope he does soon though.
labug, I think some peace would help. I think I will get that with additional DBing. I don't want anyone to think I am physically unsafe, because I am not. I just meant emotionally
