Do you remember the long talk I had about her needing to feel that she was first place, above ANYONE else in your life? You had robbed her of that first place, and it's not something she has gotten over yet. You stepped up to your parents. Don't you dare let a friend come before your wife! Right now, your W just needs the assurance that if she can no longer be friends with that woman, you will not put the friend above your W. And, I do not believe in M people having "friendships" with the opposite sex that exclude the S. Even though she says you could still hang out with the female friend, she would be jealous and it would come between you in the M. Don't be this crazy!
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Issue #2: Her dad.
It's her dad! It's completely normal for him to feel that way about his daughter! Of course you were a cad in his opinion. But, remember how YOUR PARENTS felt about her? Don't even get me started!
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Issue #3: The house
She just wants to know that you would be willing to sell if that would make her happy. She isn't asking you to do it today.
Crimson, you have cried over your stitch too many times and would have offered up anything just to get her back. Now, you are looking at "issues"?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
