Thank you SIAS! Well here it is another low point just one day later.
When I got home last night he wanted to talk, so I asked about what. He wanted to find out where my head was after being away, and taxes. I said "why don't we stick to taxes" and he agreed
I own my company and when we filed, there are clearly documents missing based on what our accountant is saying. So I said that I would print everything out and provide them tomorrow. He wanted to sit and go through line by line last night and I just didn't feel strong enough to do that. I said, I promise to provide it in less than 24 hours and proceeded to drop it.
This angered him and he accused me of lying, stealing money from my business and hiding things from him. Oh the irony. I have never once lied to him, even about something small.
He got in my face a few times but I never felt unsafe. The kids came home and we went our separate ways (small house so its tough)
I was on the front porch on the phone and he was heading to bed and locked the door. I had to knock for my S15 to let me in. I went to the bedroom and said "that is not ok, you put S15 in a bad position" He said "the back door was open" and began condescending "come with me, lets look at it together". I wouldn't have thought to go to the back, he saw me on the front porch.
He then proceeded to tell me that he is filing single this year and I am on my own for whatever outcome with the business. Wow! I know it is simple documentation, there is something missing and I planned to find it today. I said "you can't do that" and he said "watch me"
I went to the front again and was talking to a friend, and mentioned this to her. When I came in he said that he was in the bathroom and he could hear what I was telling my friend. That was a bit creepy. I know the kids didn't hear because the windows were closed and when I talked to them for a bit last night, they told me that they didn't hear any conversation, just some slamming doors (that was H)
I told the kids that clearly we have been having issues for a while, which was no shock to them. I said that we would be making some changes but we both love them. I told them my goal is to make sure that they are ok no matter what and they nodded.
S15 was hinting around to get info and basically asked if H cheated again. I didn't confirm or deny, just said we can't get along and shouldn't live together. We love them both very much. He said "you aren't telling us some things"
S17 said, we both agreed that we will not live apart from one another. I told them that would never happen, that they will always be together no matter what.
My heart is hurting pretty badly this morning. I don't know what is coming next.
I will have to protect myself and find an attorney this morning.I don't know what he is capable of, but clearly he is only thinking of himself right now.
