I'm just wondering if anyone has had the experience of having your spouse totally and completely not talk about things at all for weeks and weeks and weeks on end. And acting like things are completely fine.
Sounds like he is just following the script. All is not as it seems, I can assure you that. His mask is firmly in place and he will not let you see beneath it. You need to continue to live your life, letting him go. I am afraid to say that he is very much at the start of this and has a very long ways to go.
Try not to push him away. You have the right idea about this. DO NOT TEXT or PURSUE, it will not work.
