Together Since We Were 15...Now Piecing

[Jenna333]

Thanks for all of the advice!

He says he hardly talks to her. He now says he won't even say hi to her anymore, but who knows.

We got into a fight today, and we both put on the table that we're very vulnerable when it comes to past OW/OM. I'm having a hard time getting over it when he sees her at work. He said they work together about once a week. I keep trying to let it go, trust him on it, and not bring it up. It always ends up coming up, though. We talked afterward, though, and we feel good about where we're headed. We're tired of allowing OTHER PEOPLE into our minds, thus allowing even the memory of them destroy us. We have to start trusting each other. He knows that respect goes hand in hand with that.

He's not going to find another job. I know that seems extreme anyway. I just have to trust him. So hard!