I think he had several aliasas? Not sure. I was clicking and going deeper and deeper into threads.

I think on page 2 of the Withdrawal to Acceptance link there are 4 or 5 links to Happy Again's posts. However the first 2 links didn't work.

M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.