Originally Posted By: Dory

Thanks Denver, I appreciate your input. I'm assuming you mean that I should also be setting personal goals for myself?


Yes. You can't control your H, his actions, words, choices, or feelings. Setting goals for yourself helps you focus. Usually these goals will only help your marital issues, but focusing on them as personal goals is a good way to go about it.

I must admit that later in my sitch, I added an 11th goal... "Save my F'n Marriage"... LOL... Obviously, that is the reason that we all ended up here on this site.

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce