Trusting, Just listen to him and let it go out of the other ear. He wants to feel like Mr. Stud Muffin and to do that, he wants you to pursue him. He wants everyone to think that you are pursuing him all of the time. Stand your ground don't contact him unless it is an absolute emergency.
The Mr. Stud Muffin is throwing a huge temper tantrum and I'd let him just stomp his feet and hold his breath!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.