I'd like to say that this roller coaster has the steepest drop of any I've been on along with the most bunny hills. The db'n has been working pretty well and I've dropped the ball enough to realize that it's much more effective than the first few days of begging, pleading, and trying to make sense out of the situation that defies all logic. We really haven't had any conversations over the past 5 days or so with the exception of the normal chit chat about planning our S's schedule. I've noticed that when we are in the house and I'm off doing my own thing she has been trying to locate me to inquire what I'm doing. I believe someone had posted about men naturally not being good at playing it off, but I'm getting better at it. I think I sounded like a broken record at first.