Granted, I don’t think I’m anywhere near a R at this point. I just see lots of people getting 2x4s for pursuing their WAS. My DB coach basically told me to pursue my H, even if it’s at a slow pace. ALWAYS TRY YOUR DB COACHES ADVICE and not anything that contradicts it.
IF and when you have tried it for long enough to see no results, then ask your DB coach what to do. I had 18 sessions that changed my life. They were specific to MY situation which is why the coaches are so helpful
I'm assuming a couple of weeks is not what you mean by long enough. LOL (j/k)
I need to set my own expecations with myself NOT to have any expectations. I've been doing really good about not expecting a response when I do something nice for H. But he hasn't really responded unfavorably either, so I guess that theory hasn't truly been tested.