[quote=RoRoinMD]-If it looks like the WAS may be thawing even just a little bit, why can’t the LBS try something that puts the olive branch out there to see what will happen – even if it’s somewhat pursuing?
This is a touch and go. I suggest waiting for the real thing. If you bake a cake and it is half done, how do you think it will taste?
Are you saying wait for your S to come to you? I want to make sure I understand what “waiting for the real thing” means.
Originally Posted By: RoRoinMD
Granted, I don’t think I’m anywhere near a R at this point. I just see lots of people getting 2x4s for pursuing their WAS. My DB coach basically told me to pursue my H, even if it’s at a slow pace.
Their are different types of pursuit and distance. Pursue in the types that you have been distancing for your whole maairage, but do not pursue if it is the same behavior that has pushed him away.
This needs to be said more often or maybe in a different way. All newbies get is DO NOT PURSUE. PERIOD.
